• He loves doggy style: Men love the doggy style of s#x and find that idea of ‘submissiveness’ highly erotic. It’s one s#x position that enables men to climax without too much efforts!

• Become familiar with his frenulum, one of the most sensitive areas of the penis, which is on the underside of the penis. Playful light pressure to the frenulum often coax more blood into the p#nis for even harder erections. Wrap your hand around his p#nis so that the fleshy pads of your fingers rub over the frenulum. Place his hand over yours so he can guide you up and down just the way he likes it.

• Double his pleasure. Stimulate another erogenous zone such as his testicles and nipples. Rub the nerve-rich seam running down the middle of his scrotum, then gently push up against the base of his testicles with your hand. That’s a way to arouse his prostate, the sensitive gland known as the male G-spot, says s#x expert, Ian Kerner.

• Grab his butt. Wrapping your hands around his butts will make him feel wanted, which will turn him on.

• He loves more foreplay. Most men say they expect foreplay to last 15 minutes or longer. Longer foreplay helps men synchronise with their partners, giving them confidence and, as a result, better control over ejaculation, says San Francisco s#x therapist, Dr. Seth Prosterman.

• Guide him. When he stimulates you with his hand, guide him to show him how you like to be touched. Your magic phrase? “Like this.” That’s all—he’ll get the picture.

• During s#x, switch positions. Slowly kiss him along his neck and collarbone. When you are shifting from one s#x position to another, turn around and offer him rear entry.

• Keep the lights on. He loves when he can see and feel your body. And don’t be embarrassed because that will turn him off, says a relationships advisor Dr. Pepper Schwartz.

• Talk more like a man. When talking to your man, get to the point quicker. As much as men love the sound of your voice and really love to help you out, their attention spans are short. So, he’ll get the gist if you keep it short and just say what’s on your mind. If you’re not really looking for solutions, tell him in black and white: “I’m not looking for you to fix anything; I feel better just having you understand how I’m feeling.” He will have the satisfaction of having provided something of value to you, the woman he cares about.

• To find out what he likes, ask. Guys can be shy about telling you what really turns them on and how they like to be touched down there. So, ask. Your permission to be open will create a safe, comfortable atmosphere that can turn into some really hot s#x.

• Be more assertive. As much as a man likes to be in control, the bedroom is one place where he would like to see you take more control. Be the one to initiate sex. When you take charge, you affirm your desire for him.

• Wear strapless dresses that flash a bit of flesh. Wear his boxers around the house. Leaving something to be imagined will drive him wild as men get turned on even more by what they can’t see.

• Slip into the shower with him and soap him up.

• At a fancy dinner at a restaurant, clue him in to the fact that you’re not wearing any underwear, and see how fast he finishes his desert!

• Seduce him with subtlety. S#x therapist, Dr. Robert Birch says, “Let your shirt fall from your shoulder, undo one more button, or wear a fitted blouse over a lacy bra and watch him ogle you all night long.”

• Ask for what you want in bed. A man would very much enjoy hearing what you’d like him to do to you in bed. “Saying ‘Oh, do that slower,’ isn’t an order, it’s sexy,” says a s#x therapist, Dr. Joy Davidson.

• Laugh with and at him. Simply being able to laugh with him, at him, and at yourself is a sign of intellectual compatibility, says author, Dr. Billy Goldberg.

• Appreciate him. Show appreciation and respect for his hard work. Show your love for him to make him feel valued and needed as provider and protector.

• Hold his hand. Many women think that men don’t like cuddling, handholding, and other non-sexual forms of closeness; they’re wrong. Men enjoy it as much as you do. So, grab his hand, plant a brief but passionate kiss, touch his thigh with your hand, or graze his arm with your breasts … All these show your confidence in your sexuality, which men find irresistible.

• The biggest secret s#xual turn on for men. It’s your confidence in bed. It excites him to know that he is pleasing you, that you want him and are enjoying him as much as he’s enjoying you.

• Make s#x more interactive. Don’t just lie there! But you’ll satisfy him by letting him know what feels good to you and what he’s doing right. Grip the sheets. Grab the headboard. Moan into his ear and talk dirty. Plead. Demand. Direct.